Reconciliation Before Worship
Devotional
In a world where holding grudges is normalized and cutting people off is celebrated as self-care, Jesus offers a radically different approach. He teaches that reconciliation with others should take priority even over religious duties. When we come to worship while harboring unresolved conflicts, our offerings to God lose their meaning. Jesus instructs us to leave our gift at the altar and first be reconciled to our brother or sister. This teaching reveals God’s heart: He values right relationships as much as right rituals. The urgency in Jesus’ words is striking—”settle matters quickly.” Unresolved anger doesn’t improve with time; it festers and spreads, poisoning relationships and communities. The longer we wait to address conflicts, the more difficult reconciliation becomes. This doesn’t mean all conflicts will be fully resolved or that relationships will always be restored to their former state. Sometimes reconciliation means releasing resentment and extending forgiveness even when the relationship remains changed. What matters is that we’ve done everything in our power to pursue peace. Today, is there someone with whom you need to seek reconciliation? Don’t wait for “someday”—today is the only day you’re promised.
Bible Verse
“So if you are offering your gift at the altar and there rem
ember that your brother has something against you, leave your gift there before the altar and go. First be reconciled to your brother, and then come and offer your gift.” – Matthew 5:23-24
Reflection Question
What relationship in your life needs reconciliation, and what specific step could you take today toward healing that relationship?
Quote
Our worship to is hollow and worthless if you’re not in a right relationship with your fellow men. Your worship to God has no value if it comes while you’re still at odds with your fellow men.
Prayer
Father, give me courage to pursue reconciliation in my broken relationships. Remove pride and fear that keep me from taking the first step. Help me to value relationships as You do, prioritizing peace over being right. Guide my words and actions as I seek to restore what’s been damaged. Amen.